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Connection is the Key to ADHD Acceptance

Getting an ADHD diagnosis can be a life-altering event, especially if it is an adult diagnosis. You have learned something new about yourself and how your brain is wired. Things are the same as they have always been, but now, you have a name for your struggles and unique traits. While it is a good thing to have answers, it can be hard to handle. 

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Undiagnosed ADHD Can Exacerbate Mental Health Concerns 

Living with ADHD can impact a person’s mental health to the extent that they develop additional disorders alongside their ADHD. Often, co-occurring mental health disorders have a more debilitating impact on the person’s well-being than ADHD symptoms.

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Understanding the Meaning of Neurodiversity

Neurodiversity means everyone's minds and variability we have in our brain connections.

Our brains change throughout our lives and can be impacted and change with the environment we are in (now and in the past).

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A Neurodivergent Person’s Dilemma

Since it is unrealistic to expect the world will change to accommodate a person's lack of social skills, the wise choice is to make an extra effort to learn to do things that come naturally to others.

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An Effective Strategy to Achieve Lasting Change

One often-quoted expression is "New year, new me." I've never liked that expression. The reason I don't like it is simple. There is nothing magical about the calendar changing that changes you.

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Five Strategies for Thriving with Adult ADHD

Are you grappling with focus, organization, or procrastination issues? Is the daily grind feeling overwhelming due to Adult ADHD? Juggling work, family, and personal life can be daunting, but it doesn't have to be. This article offers five strategies to help you thrive despite the challenges of ADHD.

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Understanding Shame and ADHD in Adults

Living with adult ADHD can be tough, and one often ignored part of it is shame. Shame makes you feel bad about yourself and stops you from doing your best. But you can beat shame and live a good life with ADHD. Here are seven ways to do it.

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Improve Your Ability to Organize When You Have ADHD

Some adults with ADHD have trouble paying close attention to small details, affecting their success in life and work. This article shares ways to get better at noticing details which is important because taking medication does not solve all the problems related to ADHD.

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Do You Have ADHD & Procrastinate?

Do you have great ideas and know what to do but need help to start? Many adults with ADHD have this problem because they struggle with focusing, paying attention for a long time, getting easily distracted, making decisions, planning, and finishing tasks.

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I Have ADHD and Hate Boring Conversations

Why We Get Bored

*Small talk can be profoundly boring. The older you get, the more this is true. Truly, it is hard to find people who "match" in terms of what they find stimulating.

*Yesterday I talked with a friend who also has ADHD about how typical conversations go. One person says his whole monologue and then the other person says her whole monologue. The monologue-ing gets so boring it is hard for us to stay engaged.

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Do You Relate to These Metaphors for Life with ADHD?

Imagine having a toddler in the room with you. The room is constantly messy. You cannot keep it tidy because the toddler keeps messing it up. You occasionally tidy the room, but when you turn your back, it is a mess again. You get overwhelmed with the chaos and cannot control feeling discouraged. It is a never-ending battle to keep my room tidy.

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ADHD—Explained by Adults with ADHD

Roger: I have trouble organizing, prioritizing, managing time, switching from one activity/state to another, and directing my attention. I am messy and forgetful. I am easily overwhelmed, always run late, do one thing obsessively until it is nearly perfect, drift off when my mind should be focused on one thing, and have trouble working without explicit instructions.

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What is the Difference Between 8:55 a.m. and 9:05 a.m.?

What Is the Difference Between 8:55 a.m. and 9:05 a.m.?

Any child knows the simple answer is 10 minutes, but I’m asking for a more complex answer to a more complex question: What’s the difference between being 5 minutes early and five minutes late?  What is the difference between arriving to a staff meeting at 8:55 a.m. instead of 9:05 a.m.?

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